Period S*x: How To Do ‘It’ Right?
S*x is a beautiful practice that we engage in for pleasure, and it indeed has a lot of personal health benefits for everyone when done with consent and proper communication. However, when it comes to period s*x, it’s a whole different world of exploration to be all together. Though there are several misconceptions and stigma around period s*x, it is not an uncommon practice.
A lot of people engage in this pleasure game even when their partners are on periods. This is reinforced by a statistics report that stated that more than 80 percent of 500 people have tried period s*x at least once in their life. So if you’re new to the concept of having s*x during periods or interested in trying it out for yourself, you are not wrong or a bad person for wanting to try it out.
If you are convinced enough to go ahead, you will have a lot of concerns about the dos and don’ts, what to expect from the entire act, and the necessary preparations before getting started. It’s completely natural to have these thoughts and this article will help you find the answers you’re looking for!
What to Keep in Mind During Period S*x?
Having s*x during periods can be adventurous and exhilarating at the same time. Yes, it can be an experience like no other, especially when women experience an increased sex drive during menstruation which makes it even more special. Below are some of the tried and tested tips to help you have an unforgettable time making love with the people you get connected to.
Get a towel( preferably red or darker shade)
There is blood involved in the entire process, so period s*x for sure is going to be messy, depending on the day of the period cycle. Chances are you will see a lot of it during and after the act, and the probability of getting your sheets stained is high here. However, if that does not concern you, you should just go for it and in case it does, you should consider using a towel.
Use C*ndoms
There is a popular assumption that period s*x is safe and there is no risk of pregnancies and STIs. The menstrual cycle is different among females, and so is the ovulation period. Though rare, there is still room for pregnancy, and STIs can still be transmitted during period s*x. Therefore, periods or not, to be on the safer side, always use c*ndoms for healthier life choices.
Talk about your fears
Consent is essential when it comes to physical intimacy. Though women have increased s*x drive during this duration, they still may choose not to get involved in any s*xual relations. Similarly, there could also be scenarios where partners may not be feeling it at the moment. So, communicate before you initiate an approach.
Set the mood
There will be a discharge of blood, especially after an orgasm, and that could leave an odor in the room. If it affects the mood in any way, you should consider using incense candles or anything that suits your liking to ensure everyone has a good time!
Try it under the shower
This will save you from the post-cleanup stress and expand your options within the bedroom. However, make sure the washroom environment is safe enough for having fun.
Oral s*x may not work
It is okay to be uncomfortable with oral s*x during periods. That being said, if all the people involved do want to experience it, then there’s no reason why you shouldn’t!
Though the whole concept of period s*x is met with a lot of mixed opinions and emotions, it is and should be a personal choice and preference. Until now, period s*x(using c*ndoms) has not been associated with any health risks and as said earlier, it does have a proven positive impact on individuals. It is a completely normal and healthy s*xual experience that everyone must try at least once in a safe and judgment-free space because you’ll never know what you like(or dislike) unless you try it!