Why ‘Good Morning’ Texts Are Never Enough?
Good morning texts to your loved one seem to be an appealing way to remind him/her that you’re thinking of them. Well, if you think that’s right, you are wrong!
Good morning texts can feel like the right move for many of us in our dating lives and it is not uncommon to do so. And some websites vouch for it on Google too! But is the message getting across in the way you intended it to? Well, one can NEVER be sure.
And there are a million ways you could be wrong. For example, you just went out on your first date, and he/she may not be quite into you or may need some time to process their feelings. A good morning text the very next day could be pretty lethal in your relationship as they might find toxic attachment and creepy behaviour in your gesture. This will not only reduce the chances in your dating pursuit but might also diminish the interest they have in you. After all, you know nobody deserves toxicity in life!
Besides that, it can also be quite annoying even in long-term(/long-distance) relationships. Of course, you can put a little effort and make them realize they are always on your mind. Because if you don’t, it’d just seem like one of the automated texts on your smartphone. And that’s never going to help any relationship. It tells a lot about a person’s character(not in a good way). These monotonous “Good Mornings” can make people wonder if you’re just a boring person with dull habits that could ruin their life in the long term.
So if you are thinking of them in ways more than one, why limit it to just a few words in a “Good Morning” text? After all, a morning being good doesn’t make anybody’s day!
For starters, you can work on your words. Tell your special one how much you love/miss them. Even something as simple as “you are on my mind” tells a lot about your relationship. And being a little descriptive and honest about your feelings can warm anyone’s heart. Let them start their day knowing how much they mean to you.
You don’t have to let only words do the talking. Actions speak louder almost everywhere, and that is why simple gestures can communicate better in relationships. For people who find themselves less adept at expressing themselves through words, this is how you do it. Period.
No, it isn’t too hard to do a bit “extra” for that particular person in our lives. Compliment them, send a picture, ask them out, surprise them with flowers/chocolates, order their favourite food(and make sure it gets delivered on time), or show up on their doorstep(if possible)! The options are endless, and it’s always a conscious choice. You surely would know by now that people would only feel special if you make them feel so. Keep it simple if you like, or go the extra mile, but make sure you ditch the standard “good morning” text!
