Breaking The Taboo Around Period S*x
Menstruation is a natural biological process that is closely associated with the reproductive cycle in women. A predominant indicator of puberty in women – menses, or menstrual period, is the monthly shedding of the uterus lining, which involves discharge of blood and mucosal tissue from the vagina. Above all, menstruation is simply a factor that marks the beginning of a girl’s journey into the world of womanhood.
As beautiful and regular as it may sound from the above description, what differentiates the menstrual period from other bodily functions is the heavily stigmatized taboo around it. Unique to women, menstruation has always been another concept in the list of practices that are used to control women and their bodies. This is especially relevant in socioeconomic developing countries like India, where women are considered dirty and impure, and refrained from their regular routines.
There are religious and cultural policies for certain communities that discourage women from mingling with people and they are forced to sleep in different rooms or on floors. Restrictions on entering temples and kitchens have also existed for a long time. This taboo around menstruation has not even spared the women of the West as well. Secrecy is naturally enforced and certain religious texts also enforce the idea that women on menstruation are unclean and have to be dealt with from a distance.
So when periods have been treated with disgust for so long, the possibility of having s*x during this time of the month is quite impossible for a lot of people or the majority. It is even more surprising to acknowledge the fact that there are still people from different cultures around the world who have no clue about the wonderful s*x they can have during periods and the pleasure they are missing out on!
Having s*x during periods may seem like a faraway dream for many. After all, the thought of having any kind of s*x while your partner is bleeding can be upsetting and even triggering. So it is important to have conversations because the perks of period s*x are plenty and that indeed becomes the reason why more and more people SHOULD initiate this conversation with their partners.
Tempting Reasons to Have Period S*x
Period s*x is not as uncommon as you think. A lot of people are regular participants in this pleasure game. According to statistics published by the Flex Company, 83 percent of 500 people had said yes to period s*x, and even the ones who hate it have tried it at least once.
Many women experience increased s*x drive during their periods, which is completely normal and of course, a good thing! After all, s*x is a natural stress buster while periods are known for their discomfort. The extra lubrication on the other hand also contributes to a more pleasurable experience. Blood is a natural lubricant that can reduce the risk of friction during penetrative s*x, thus making it better for all.
Another important aspect of period s*x is its ability to reduce cramps. In the absence of fertilization, the uterus contracts to shed its lining which results in painful cramps. Period s*x helps relieve this pain by releasing endorphins in the body which makes women feel better. A much-needed break from the discomfort of periods!
Shorter periods are the MAJOR highlight of s*x during menstruation. Orgasms from penetrative or non-penetrative s*x create similar contractions in the uterus, thereby releasing blood and tissue. So, the more the orgasms, the shorter the period cycle. This would indeed be the best reason to encourage period s*x among couples.
However, this does not mean that women are always ready for s*x during periods and neither are men. Consent comes first, and it is quite natural to want to cuddle and sleep with a hot water bag. So, consent and communication should be the top priority during physical intimacy, and the rest will work out on its own.
